Aadatein

 

“Thoda Sukoon Bhi Dhoondiye Janaab, Yeh Zarooratein Toh Kabhi Khatam Nahi Hogi.”


Kitni cheezein hogi abhi tumhari jo bas aadhi adhoori padi hai, kahi kisi kone mein, bas intezaar kar rahi hai ki tum usse yaad karo aur firse uss par kaam karna shuru karo. Chalo shuruwat kar bhi liya agar toh usse chalte rehne de paaate ho? Ki achanak kuch nayi cheez ya aalas ya fir kisi aur ka sunkar vo cheez band kar dete ho. Ki ha, sab ne band kiya hai toh sahi hi hoge, jaise dusre bataege abhi humein kya sahi aur galat hai hamare liye. 


Humne na, ek aadat daal di, apne mann ka chorhkar sab ke mann ka karne ki, kyuki sab ke saath rehna hai na, alag jaake kahi akele na padh jaaye. Aur logon ke beech jo akele ho rahe hai, uska kya? Kyu ki bey mann ho raha hai na jo bhi ho raha hai, usse accha mann ki karlo, sukoon toh usme hi milega na. 


Aadat hamesha buri nai hoti, kabhi yehi hai jo hamesha hum bana kar rakhti hai, fir chaahe vo gungunana ho, ya tasveerin khichna ho ya fir bas, kitaabein padhna ho. Ha pata hai, zamana podcast ka hai par kitaabein padh sakte hai ab bhi. Tumhari zindagi ke kaam toh dusron ke liye karloge shayad, par aadatein apni rakho, ye tumhe yaad diilate rahegi, tum aakhir ho kaun.




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