Caffeinated Psychologist

"If you really love something let it go. If it comes back to you, its your's. If it doesn't, then it never was." It is so difficult to live far away from someone when they are so close to your heart. You try to share every possible thing in your life with them from scratch and even try to stay in contact with them throughout the day but you know what is beautiful? The feeling that knowing someone is there for you. It feels good to be present in some way but after a point, there comes a time when you stop being around your actual space and start being there and make the relationship a little unhealthy in ways you cannot imagine. And what do you do at such times? Well, you work your way through to make it a healthy relationship; be it with family, friends or your partner.  You can do some things for your own benefit, here are some steps: Start having a personal space for your thoughts and hobbies Share the details of present even after it is completed, so that you live ...

“You only lose what you cling to.”   Oh, I can't even remember the amount of times I have heard this line. People are so afraid to get close to someone just because they don't know where the relationship will go or even if it will go anywhere. It can be scary, often to get close but that does not mean you will not give yourself a chance. So what do you do if you don't get scared or not get attached or even get too attached to fear of never being able to live without them? Well you are at the right place to understand how to go about it.  First you need to understand what kind of attachment you have and then you try to work on how to manage it. Now it's not a problem as long as it is not causing you any harm but it does become a problem if you do not know yourself enough or how to get out of it. Once you get to know yourself well  it really becomes easier to manage. Then you understand, what leads to long lasting attachment or even attachment which might make you get too...