Caffeinated Psychologist

  “A place is only as good as the people in it.” Physical spaces affect your thoughts. I know, sounds like not much of a relevant subject but trust me, it does make a difference. So imagine yourself in a cluttered desk, your creativity will be at its peak but working on any organized desk might make it a tad bit difficult. I am not saying the work proficiency will be affected, that is entirely up to your skills but rather your thoughts will be similar to that of your space. If you think studying in an environment where music can help, then it depends on the music. Next thing you, you are listening to a love song, it affects your mood and you start daydreaming, well, there goes the knowledge down the drain. So that is how physical spaces impact in major ways. It also changes everything for the long term.  If you work with individuals with a certain kind of thought process then no matter how much you try, it does bring a difference in your thought processes. It may not happen ac...

  “Every choice we make can be a celebration of the world we want.” How many times have you celebrated whatever you are doing in your life? It can be something as simple as going through a very exhaustive day and still getting some time for your regular cooking? Or being in an annoyed state but still dealing with things calmly? Or even something as simple as getting up from bed every morning even though you are barely in the state to move? You know, these are not just normal things for everyone but also something which makes a huge difference in a person’s life who is doing everything in his mind to lose their battle to these everyday events.  You know, it does alter your brain chemistry if you show yourself some care and compassion. Just kidding. But it does make you feel a little better. You know, these wins are not small when you have it often as it makes a big difference. It does create a neural pathway in your mind which slowly trains to release dopamine - the pleasure ...

  “Love is not love until love’s vulnerable”      Well, the name might have triggered some thoughts and of course, the time is such that your brain will highlight the thought even more. Let me tell you something, love is not something to be deserved; it is something to be felt. And trust me on this one, it does not come from romantic relationships only but from various ways. It is when your friend listens to your rant about the same crush over and over again, it is when your mom quitely cooks your favourite food on days you feel low, it's on the day when dad gets you your favourite chocolate from the market, its when your sibling sits with you and eats the most unhealthy thing because you needed company. I mean, these are different forms of love, which you do know exists for you and comes to you often, but again; what about romantic love?      Well, it might have happened and you got the best of partners and eventually it turned into something unhealth...